These are very important things the easiest way you damage your self respect and you are not even realizing this, noticing this. And I am kind of guilty of certain things as much as I want to live a more humanistic life. When i am watching TV i will be like scrolling through my Instagram or i will be scrolling through my other social media and seeing all these and i am like just like a hypnotized monkey .just looking looking looking. What happens is I guess they know i am Indian so i start getting these like celebrity videos like for example there was this Ganesh Chaturthi celebrations and then i see this video of like all these big celebrities coming to i guess ambans place. And then I see Ambani coming in with like 10 different cars and people are surrounding them. Their cars cannot even get through. You know what you are doing there is a saying in Hindi and remember this ,do not put anybody higher than you. Unless it's a Guru or God. Because what happens I just do not get it like and yeah early in my life I was again guilty of this of being struck and being like just you know completely in a hypnotized state seeing my child hero.
Because what happens is this if you read any of the old stories ,if you read any of historic books have you
ever read anything where a king is going amongst a crowd to meet some classical singer and they are going
crazy they cannot believe it oh just please touch my hand touch my hand touch no king is in it's palace
relaxing. Whoever comes in they meet them they will respect them they will talk the king will appreciate
i love your music I love this would you love you to perform okay good but what's happening is when
you are giving any of these celebrities' that that absolute praise that you are the shining .And I just need to
have this glimpse of you. You are weakening your own self-respect when I see these crowds. If you see a
legitimate GURU, okay that I rather see that because the GURU has the power to take you to self-respect,
meaning take you to your core. That's the person that needs to be appreciated. For example, just last week
or a week and a half ago I was going to an Indian restaurant and it is in this downtown area where they have
IT offices, and one of them sees me and then you know they call for my name. The other ones also recognize
oh my God it's you ,you know and they are taking pictures with men like looking at me oh my I cannot
believe you are here i cannot believe this. This is such a great thing wow I love this I love those videos
and all of that your knowledge of awakening people is great. Your blogs are so impressive. I love to
learn more. And this is what I am telling you here. I cannot tell them what you are doing right now,
you are weakening your self-respect.
By putting me on higher perester you are wreaking your own self respect. Do not give this bow to
meadow, do not give this weight to me .Because you have equal weight as me You will weaken your
self-respect with this because what happens now look at this i am not talking about me let's talk about
some Allis Bollywood. You know stars are in front of the camera for maybe an hour and 2 hours ok for
some song. Their professional lights, professional makeup artist, dance coordinator, perfect editing and
then equally perfect budget. I am talking about the core budget, millions of budget for social media.so
what happens is this worker is now presented as self-respect which is artificial. So you start looking at thi
s person like wow this is the person I want to be like, this is the person that is above everybody else ,they
are better human beings than anybody else, I wish I had their life. So what happens in that case you weaken
your creativity and your technical skills .Why? Because your social media should have the capacity
. I am not saying it always does if it should have the capacity to see through deception. That's how
social media becomes social media. He saw through the deception that wait a second there's some trickery
happening here. so when you see them you should realize what you see is not this individual.it is everything
that has made this individual into this something special .And it's great artistry, great music song ,
dance story, but if this person is ok.
And let me tell you like whatever Allis is a celebrity who's walking on the street Mumbai and
nobody bothers them. Nobody says oh my god I can't believe I just saw you and there's painting and all of
that the day whether It's India or any country will rise to the top. Why? Because the public will begin to
strengthen their self respect. So everybody who goes to education ,technology, social media with where my
status in life. Will I be famous? Will I have a promotion? How is it that you can become king of your world?
If you are not behaving like the king .Like the example I gave you. Another perfect example especially as
a teenager we did this. I am sure many teenagers in Bharat across will do this, putting their favorite
celebrities on the wall in a poster. Once you do that you're putting them in a place of saints and Gods
.So what is happening is you're trying to worship them like wow i want to be like you i want to be as great
as an athlete as you i want your life. Do you really want their life, do you want most of these athletes to
cheat on their spouses, deal with domestic violence's ,drug use ,or arrest. Whether it's a musician, celebrity, actor
or your favorite creator on social media. You don't know who they are cheating ,you don't know what kind
of a ego that they have, that they completely insult some body .Let's say who even comes and cleans in their
home and they are yelling at them .you want that action, you want that life yeah go ahead and put them in
your wall and make them feel like supiriors.so this is what these things does, its first of all weakening your self-respect.
And I am not talking about capacity walks on the street and you insult them. No, don't degrade
them. They are doing their work. They are doing their action. They are entertaining you. They are taking you
away for a little bit from your stress of the world. you should appreciate that. But don't think that they are away
above you. And oh my god can I approach this person, they are that special. No because if they die on the
street right from that point onwards the body will start to disintegrate.
THEY WILL GET INSECTS BUGS AND CROWS eating their flesh ,will smell. You want to get away
like 100 yards. From that particular body. What is that person ,who is that person. This is how you need to
start understanding people around you. YOUR Favorite celebrity may lead you into some immoral path.
You will see that you will go to some of these industry gatherings who they really are. So this is why it is
important that you have that self respect. And dignity.
like for example i gave you my own example, if I am there if i am walking I am not saying you don't
say anything hey Kapil how are you nice to meet you. You know it's great to see you, enjoy your lunch .
So neither you're insulting me nor are you putting me above you. I am a human just like you, just because of
this little device of I phone or some social media network. I became who I am or something different in your
perception. BUT I am not so in a way it's a good thing that by scrolling through these social media. I am getting
to understand what is happening and how, what are people dinging their own. Start treating yourself as
important as the other. Other individuals start looking through the deception. So when you see that athlete
celebrity, okay, you are seeing that small little moment of them dunking a basketball or making that six,
you're not seeing that hard work, you're not seeing the politics that is being played. Start strengthening your
self respect .Celebrity athletes, don't be fascinated by them ,mind your own business and go. What is that
autograph going to do? You are going to be excited for 5 to minutes. Within 10 days you'll be somewhere else
you won't even know what that picture is going to do like oh my God I have taken
a picture with this person you know. So now again there's these situations you know you talk to someone,
some celebrity is there and you know you are talking hey how are you loved your picture you know it's
great work, yeah absolutely you know. So in that case if let's say they are going in a group of people they
say hey you want to take a picture here why not but don't be like oh my god I am taking this picture with
the God of this universe okay. So i know i am just I could
I have ended this in like two minutes but I have to explain what is going behind all these
scenarios that I am talking about. Especially with self respect and social media .right thankyou.
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